Well, alrighty. The banana nut loaves have just been put in the oven. That sounds like a cryptic top-secret code phrase, doesn't it? I mean, especially this late at night, when one has been up for about, give or take, three years.
"The banana nut breads loaves are in the oven."
"Roger that. We have confirmation of a Bake Sale at oh-seven-hundred, sir."
"Over. I want a positive read on the Kids Sleeping before we commence with Blog exercise."
"Affirmative, sir."
*Sigh*. I don't write that kind of thing as well as Kate Bachus, but this late at night, my judgment is screwy enough that I try, anyway.
Before the baking of the loaves, there was the trip to the grocery store at 10:30pm for vanilla extract. And let me just say that if we all thought gasoline prices were bad, we should take a look at how truly impoverished we would be if our tanks required vanilla extract to run. Even the cashier did a sharp intake of breath when she rang up the bottle. Very nice.
Before the vanilla extract trip, there was the performance of Coppelia that S's dance school put on. I think she's about 10 years from being able to dance in a show like that. See this link for the story, if you'd like. It's a little twisted, but they did an innocent-enough production.
Before the dance show was gymnastics, before/during that, two trips to the Rummage Sale site to help set up, a quick trip home, a trip to Hospice to drop of a check from the Human Race, picking up the girls from school and a playdate, and a full and busy day at work. For the first time I can remember in a long time, I had no real "meal" at all today - just snacks grabbed here and there, mostly junky stuff.
I am not complaining. I am recording. I'd like to just write: "had a busy day," but if I ever look back and read this blog entry years from now, I'll be thinking, "What? Busy doing what? Where are the details? Where is the reflection and writerly focus? What really happened? Was there vanilla extract involved?"
Thus I am forced to expand the basic "busy day" plot.
Friday, May 20, 2005
Thursday, May 19, 2005
Did I forget to Post today?
I sometimes think I will just plum forget to write here some day this year, but after the .34 seconds of panic wears off, I realize that it isn't likely. It's more likely that I'll write two sleepy posts in a fog of bloggines than that my brain would allow me to reach midnight without having done this at all.
Here's what I'm not writing about tonight
Star Wars
Three people I know who have birthdays today
The genocide in Rwanda
As has happened so often before, I'm literally falling asleep at the keyboard and couldn't even do the first of these topics justice right now.
Note to self:
blog early and blog often, and actually write something, for goodness' sake.
Here's what I'm not writing about tonight
Star Wars
Three people I know who have birthdays today
The genocide in Rwanda
As has happened so often before, I'm literally falling asleep at the keyboard and couldn't even do the first of these topics justice right now.
Note to self:
blog early and blog often, and actually write something, for goodness' sake.
Wednesday, May 18, 2005
Mixed bag
What a day. There were small upheavals and long meetings at work, and the afternoon plans were set aside for a last-minute playdate at our house. I baked a pumpkin pie for the school's Farmer's Market and for probably the first time in my life, did not burn the crust. It's after 10 and now a loaf of banana bread is baking - also for the market.
After the girls and I had dinner, I took them with me to give blood (mine). Finally my levels were high enough for me to donate. R read a book on the Blood Bank's big van, and S told the folks that she wanted to be a nurse when she grows up, and she watched the whole process with real interest and not the slightest bit of squeamishness. Afterwards, one of the phlebotomists gave her gloves and a small bit of bandage for her to practice being a nurse with her stuffed animals. She now has a makeshift clinic in her bedroom. When I tucked her into bed, she said, "Mommy, be very careful of the Tiger. He has Lobo Fever, and that's very dangerous to humans." I assured her I'd be extra careful.
It looks like there are some changes coming at work, and I just gave blood, and in 3 weeks I'm going to a poetry workshop. The last thing I need now is to come down with Lobo Fever - especially if this is a 5 year old nurse's casual way of referring to Lobo Disease.
Here's the scoop on Lobo Disease, from webmd.com. The medical name for the disease is Paracoccidioidomycosis. Say that three times fast.
"Paracoccidioidomycosis (PCM) is a chronic infectious tropical disease caused by the fungus Paracoccidioides brasiliensis. The initial infection usually occurs in the lungs, but may also spread to the skin, mucous membranes, and other parts of the body. Specialized cells that line the walls of blood and lymphatic vessels and dispose of cellular waste (reticuloendothelial system) may also be affected by Paracoccidioidomycosis. If left untreated, life-threatening complications can occur. Most cases of this disease occur in South and Central America."
Yep. Not on my list of "Diseases I'd Like To Have."
It is, admittedly, a pretty short list anyway.
But still.
After the girls and I had dinner, I took them with me to give blood (mine). Finally my levels were high enough for me to donate. R read a book on the Blood Bank's big van, and S told the folks that she wanted to be a nurse when she grows up, and she watched the whole process with real interest and not the slightest bit of squeamishness. Afterwards, one of the phlebotomists gave her gloves and a small bit of bandage for her to practice being a nurse with her stuffed animals. She now has a makeshift clinic in her bedroom. When I tucked her into bed, she said, "Mommy, be very careful of the Tiger. He has Lobo Fever, and that's very dangerous to humans." I assured her I'd be extra careful.
It looks like there are some changes coming at work, and I just gave blood, and in 3 weeks I'm going to a poetry workshop. The last thing I need now is to come down with Lobo Fever - especially if this is a 5 year old nurse's casual way of referring to Lobo Disease.
Here's the scoop on Lobo Disease, from webmd.com. The medical name for the disease is Paracoccidioidomycosis. Say that three times fast.
"Paracoccidioidomycosis (PCM) is a chronic infectious tropical disease caused by the fungus Paracoccidioides brasiliensis. The initial infection usually occurs in the lungs, but may also spread to the skin, mucous membranes, and other parts of the body. Specialized cells that line the walls of blood and lymphatic vessels and dispose of cellular waste (reticuloendothelial system) may also be affected by Paracoccidioidomycosis. If left untreated, life-threatening complications can occur. Most cases of this disease occur in South and Central America."
Yep. Not on my list of "Diseases I'd Like To Have."
It is, admittedly, a pretty short list anyway.
But still.
Tuesday, May 17, 2005
Educating the Federal Judge
So the story goes like this; when R. was about 6 1/2 months old, and I was back at work (but pumping milk 3 times a day at work so she would have that in her bottle), I was summoned for Jury Duty at the Federal Court in San Francisco.
It was for a racial discrimination suit that had been brought against the utility giant PG & E. I didn't try to get out of serving. However, just as I was realizing that I had pretty much been selected for the jury, I asked to have a word with the Clerk of the Court. The Clerk was a smartly dressed petite woman who obviously knew her stuff and had the respect of everyone in the room, including the judge (who was imposing in his own right). I mentioned to the clerk that I did have this, uh, situation, where I was expressing milk for my baby. And I asked how often breaks might happen, and whether there was a fridge where I could store the, uh, expressed milk.
So she went back to this U.S. District Court Judge and spoke to him at great length in hushed tones. There were whispers back and forth, and then the judge called the attorneys to him, and he requested that I join this little sidebar party they were having.
Please note that I was not feeling heroic at this moment. I was in a grand old courtroom with rows of prospective jurors staring at me, and the judge and lawyers and clerk in a serious legal-person huddle around me. I was feeling decidedly embarrassed. But here's what happened. The judge, a black gentleman who was probably closer to 70 than 60, asked that I explain to him just what my concerns were. So I did. It took some time, because he had never (I am not making this up) heard of such a thing as pumping breastmilk and saving it to give to the baby later. It was, apparently, outside of his realm of experience.
Once he did understand, however, he decided that there was no reason I couldn't serve on the jury. He said he would just make sure we had frequent enough (and long enough) breaks for me to do what I needed to do.
And that's how it played out. On any given day, after an hour or two of testimony, His Honor would say something like, "And I believe we will adjourn...?" with a careful look in my direction. My job would be to slyly signal with a raised eyebrow or slight nod or shake my head (depending on how I was holding up) and he would then finish his sentence with either, "...now for a half hour" or, "..in an hour and a half," etc.
I had educated a Federal Judge regarding the realities of being a working woman in today's world who is, at the same time, trying to do right by her baby. In retrospect, I was pretty proud of myself, and that took a little of the edge off of the embarrassment.
The trial lasted more than two weeks. I think we would have ruled in favor of the corporation (the man's case was weak, and every witness for him damned him further), but then, at the beginning of the third week, the corporation settled.
Add to the length of this jury service the distance (40 miles from my home), and the fact that the trial - at the SF Federal Building - started the day before the Oklahoma City bombing. You can imagine the shift in security from the first day to the second.
It was a tense time for all sorts of reasons. But I survived it, and I feel like I personally paved the way in that particular judge's court for any other breastfeeding moms silly enough to report for service instead of opting out as I'm sure (now) I could have done. Live and learn.
It was for a racial discrimination suit that had been brought against the utility giant PG & E. I didn't try to get out of serving. However, just as I was realizing that I had pretty much been selected for the jury, I asked to have a word with the Clerk of the Court. The Clerk was a smartly dressed petite woman who obviously knew her stuff and had the respect of everyone in the room, including the judge (who was imposing in his own right). I mentioned to the clerk that I did have this, uh, situation, where I was expressing milk for my baby. And I asked how often breaks might happen, and whether there was a fridge where I could store the, uh, expressed milk.
So she went back to this U.S. District Court Judge and spoke to him at great length in hushed tones. There were whispers back and forth, and then the judge called the attorneys to him, and he requested that I join this little sidebar party they were having.
Please note that I was not feeling heroic at this moment. I was in a grand old courtroom with rows of prospective jurors staring at me, and the judge and lawyers and clerk in a serious legal-person huddle around me. I was feeling decidedly embarrassed. But here's what happened. The judge, a black gentleman who was probably closer to 70 than 60, asked that I explain to him just what my concerns were. So I did. It took some time, because he had never (I am not making this up) heard of such a thing as pumping breastmilk and saving it to give to the baby later. It was, apparently, outside of his realm of experience.
Once he did understand, however, he decided that there was no reason I couldn't serve on the jury. He said he would just make sure we had frequent enough (and long enough) breaks for me to do what I needed to do.
And that's how it played out. On any given day, after an hour or two of testimony, His Honor would say something like, "And I believe we will adjourn...?" with a careful look in my direction. My job would be to slyly signal with a raised eyebrow or slight nod or shake my head (depending on how I was holding up) and he would then finish his sentence with either, "...now for a half hour" or, "..in an hour and a half," etc.
I had educated a Federal Judge regarding the realities of being a working woman in today's world who is, at the same time, trying to do right by her baby. In retrospect, I was pretty proud of myself, and that took a little of the edge off of the embarrassment.
The trial lasted more than two weeks. I think we would have ruled in favor of the corporation (the man's case was weak, and every witness for him damned him further), but then, at the beginning of the third week, the corporation settled.
Add to the length of this jury service the distance (40 miles from my home), and the fact that the trial - at the SF Federal Building - started the day before the Oklahoma City bombing. You can imagine the shift in security from the first day to the second.
It was a tense time for all sorts of reasons. But I survived it, and I feel like I personally paved the way in that particular judge's court for any other breastfeeding moms silly enough to report for service instead of opting out as I'm sure (now) I could have done. Live and learn.
Monday, May 16, 2005
Or not
Okay, so the court story will have to wait. I don't mean to be a liar. But I saved blogging until so late in the day that I just don't have it in me to record a story here, or even talk about today's jury duty selection process.
I will record that I wasn't selected, and given the type of trial and expected length of the trial, that's okay with me. In general, though, I never try to get out of serving, and I wouldn't have tried to get out of serving today if it had come down to that. Most of us are asked to do nothing more than pay taxes as citizens of this country; the government requires so little of us, I feel it's important to do this much, and vote, and pay those taxes. I have that much trust in the systems that we have in place. They're not perfect, but they're better than most alternatives.
Although I will also say that I know plenty of people who feel they're sacrificing enough just sticking it out and staying in the U.S. while an administration they find either incompetent or sinister (or both) makes decisions they find abhorrent. And I understand that point of view, too.
I will record that I wasn't selected, and given the type of trial and expected length of the trial, that's okay with me. In general, though, I never try to get out of serving, and I wouldn't have tried to get out of serving today if it had come down to that. Most of us are asked to do nothing more than pay taxes as citizens of this country; the government requires so little of us, I feel it's important to do this much, and vote, and pay those taxes. I have that much trust in the systems that we have in place. They're not perfect, but they're better than most alternatives.
Although I will also say that I know plenty of people who feel they're sacrificing enough just sticking it out and staying in the U.S. while an administration they find either incompetent or sinister (or both) makes decisions they find abhorrent. And I understand that point of view, too.
Sunday, May 15, 2005
2 hours of writing
So I had, theoretically, 2 hours of writing time today at the cafe downtown with Suzanne. And we did actually write, after the usual catch-up time and then me also running all sorts of current worries and inanities in my life by Suzanne, who always has a sympathetic ear and words of wisdom. We did miss the other third of our writer's group, Julia. Next time, Super Mama!
I worked on a poem, and I wrote about my writing, which strikes me as incestuous, somehow. But it did help, and I could have spent even more time writing, so those are good things.
Tomorrow, I report for Jury Duty - always an interesting experience. At least this time, unlike last time I was on a jury, I don't have a baby at home.
I will write the story of how I educated a Federal Court Judge about expressing milk tomorrow. You have been warned.
I worked on a poem, and I wrote about my writing, which strikes me as incestuous, somehow. But it did help, and I could have spent even more time writing, so those are good things.
Tomorrow, I report for Jury Duty - always an interesting experience. At least this time, unlike last time I was on a jury, I don't have a baby at home.
I will write the story of how I educated a Federal Court Judge about expressing milk tomorrow. You have been warned.
Saturday, May 14, 2005
A little pigment, a whole new world
Our livingroom is in the process of being transformed. It was all so easy! I suggested we needed new paint. D agreed. I went to OSH early this morning and brought home a couple of quarts to try out. Neither color was right (in fact, one was very not right), but after I'd run around handling the Food for Families delivery and transportation for ballet class and riding lessons, all four of us went together to the hardware store & D & I picked the colors that would be right.
And voila!
With D doing 98% of the work (because my "liquid impaired" problem applies to paint too), the room has suddenly gone from drab and dirty off-off-white to a rich "roasted asparagus" rolled over "tea green" on one wall and vellum on another, with a nice pale neutral color replacing the sickly salmon that had been on the beams in the room.
Actually, "we" have a lot more to do with the velum and beams, but the green is done. It looks better than it sounds, and the gold-framed prints we'd had on the wall are great against the deeper color.
I am so grateful to have a husband who is willing and able to do this. And I'm glad I'm strong-willed (let's not say "stubborn") and comfortable enough here to insist that we make the change.
I lived in 11 houses the first 15 years of my life, and then in another 3 rental apartments before I was 20. This could have taught me to adapt quickly, to develop the skill of making a place my own in no time at all. I know someone who unpacks her suitcase to put clothes in the drawers in a hotel room even if staying there only one night. She learned from a life of travel that impermanence doesn't mean one can't be civilized.
But instead of teaching me to set up camp under even the worst circumstances, moving so much had the more predictable effect of causing me to avoid investing much emotion or self into the room or building around me. Why bother? Why concentrate on making a place perfect when whatever one did was going to last such a brief period of time? Or when, as a renter, I didn't have permission to paint the walls or nail holes in them for pictures anyway?
It has taken living here for nearly 3 times longer than I've lived in any other single home for me to start to feel safely settled in. But, as I'm discovering about so many things, better late than never.
And voila!
With D doing 98% of the work (because my "liquid impaired" problem applies to paint too), the room has suddenly gone from drab and dirty off-off-white to a rich "roasted asparagus" rolled over "tea green" on one wall and vellum on another, with a nice pale neutral color replacing the sickly salmon that had been on the beams in the room.
Actually, "we" have a lot more to do with the velum and beams, but the green is done. It looks better than it sounds, and the gold-framed prints we'd had on the wall are great against the deeper color.
I am so grateful to have a husband who is willing and able to do this. And I'm glad I'm strong-willed (let's not say "stubborn") and comfortable enough here to insist that we make the change.
I lived in 11 houses the first 15 years of my life, and then in another 3 rental apartments before I was 20. This could have taught me to adapt quickly, to develop the skill of making a place my own in no time at all. I know someone who unpacks her suitcase to put clothes in the drawers in a hotel room even if staying there only one night. She learned from a life of travel that impermanence doesn't mean one can't be civilized.
But instead of teaching me to set up camp under even the worst circumstances, moving so much had the more predictable effect of causing me to avoid investing much emotion or self into the room or building around me. Why bother? Why concentrate on making a place perfect when whatever one did was going to last such a brief period of time? Or when, as a renter, I didn't have permission to paint the walls or nail holes in them for pictures anyway?
It has taken living here for nearly 3 times longer than I've lived in any other single home for me to start to feel safely settled in. But, as I'm discovering about so many things, better late than never.
Friday, May 13, 2005
One Thing Leads to Another
You know how these home improvement projects work. A few years ago, our guest bathroom was gutted from joist to roof (literally) and entirely remodeled because D's mom had given us the gift of a low-flow toilet.
And now that we have moved the old fish tank away from the livingroom wall in preparation for putting the new fish tank in its place, it seems that this is the opportunity we've been waiting for to repaint. Yup. You can only hold yourself back from brightening things up for so long, and apparently, 11 and a half-years is our personal limit.
So last night, even though I said I was going to bed, D. and I ended up staring at the empty corner where the old tank had been, and we realized the Golden Opportunity to turn an already complex and time-consuming project into a Neverending Project From Hell was stretched out before us like a box of upturned carpet tacks at a barefoot belly-dancing party.
And because we are such careful, plan-ahead Virgo types, we figured it would be a good idea to just sort of dash up to Home Depot tonight, after work and gymnastics and dinner, to grab a few gallons of a yet-to-be-decided-upon color and dang-it-all, start that project NOW so that we could finish it tomorrow and have it dry enough Sunday to move the new tank into the room.
The new tank, still in our garage, has 410 gallons of water in it. It has passed the pressure test. Tomorrow, we drain the thing into the neighbor's pool, a plan that was okay'd by the wife five minutes after being nixed by the husband. The upside is that the water doesn't go to waste. The downside is that the husband may end up blaming us for creating friction in any otherwise apparently functional marriage. We are such homewreckers.
Of course, there are minor glitches in every plan. For example, it wasn't until we were all walking out the door to go to Home Depot that we realized that it was 8:40 and the place closes at 9:00 on a Friday and it takes 30 minutes to get there. Math may not be my forte, but even I could see this was problematic.
And, yeah, D still has to make his custom dolly to move the 400 pounds (when empty) tank, and we need to mud part of the wall that was flaky. That kind of thing.
I assure you that it's only the wall that's flaky, not us. Oh, no. We're on it. We're sharp as the proverbial carpet tack.
Here are the fishies that started it all. The Coke can is for size comparison only but the perspective doesn't do the critters justice in spite of that: Lao Tsu, the big fish, is 17" long.
And now that we have moved the old fish tank away from the livingroom wall in preparation for putting the new fish tank in its place, it seems that this is the opportunity we've been waiting for to repaint. Yup. You can only hold yourself back from brightening things up for so long, and apparently, 11 and a half-years is our personal limit.
So last night, even though I said I was going to bed, D. and I ended up staring at the empty corner where the old tank had been, and we realized the Golden Opportunity to turn an already complex and time-consuming project into a Neverending Project From Hell was stretched out before us like a box of upturned carpet tacks at a barefoot belly-dancing party.
And because we are such careful, plan-ahead Virgo types, we figured it would be a good idea to just sort of dash up to Home Depot tonight, after work and gymnastics and dinner, to grab a few gallons of a yet-to-be-decided-upon color and dang-it-all, start that project NOW so that we could finish it tomorrow and have it dry enough Sunday to move the new tank into the room.
The new tank, still in our garage, has 410 gallons of water in it. It has passed the pressure test. Tomorrow, we drain the thing into the neighbor's pool, a plan that was okay'd by the wife five minutes after being nixed by the husband. The upside is that the water doesn't go to waste. The downside is that the husband may end up blaming us for creating friction in any otherwise apparently functional marriage. We are such homewreckers.
Of course, there are minor glitches in every plan. For example, it wasn't until we were all walking out the door to go to Home Depot that we realized that it was 8:40 and the place closes at 9:00 on a Friday and it takes 30 minutes to get there. Math may not be my forte, but even I could see this was problematic.
And, yeah, D still has to make his custom dolly to move the 400 pounds (when empty) tank, and we need to mud part of the wall that was flaky. That kind of thing.
I assure you that it's only the wall that's flaky, not us. Oh, no. We're on it. We're sharp as the proverbial carpet tack.
Here are the fishies that started it all. The Coke can is for size comparison only but the perspective doesn't do the critters justice in spite of that: Lao Tsu, the big fish, is 17" long.
Thursday, May 12, 2005
Shutting down, sir
S took a nap on the middle of the floor in the middle of a noisy livingroom today, at the house where she and R spend their Thursdays from 12:30-3:30. I was only half-joking when I asked the hostess, a great woman whom I admire very much & whose son is in R's class, if I could lie down next to sleeping S and take a nap myself.
You know, therapy is great, but it takes a lot out of you. I went to bed at 7:30 and am only up to fulfill this commitment. The rest, like the dishes and the mountain of clean laundry and spending time talking to D about his day and my day, reading that good book, watching that good film - all of that can wait.
I'm giving myself permission to check out and sleep a little extra tonight.
Not sick, just tired and withdrawn, and ok with that.
How are you?
You know, therapy is great, but it takes a lot out of you. I went to bed at 7:30 and am only up to fulfill this commitment. The rest, like the dishes and the mountain of clean laundry and spending time talking to D about his day and my day, reading that good book, watching that good film - all of that can wait.
I'm giving myself permission to check out and sleep a little extra tonight.
Not sick, just tired and withdrawn, and ok with that.
How are you?
Wednesday, May 11, 2005
Nothing to say
Nope. Nothing at all. Or, well, not really anything. Pretty much nil with just little suggestions of maybe a bit of a possibility of something that may (or may not) materialize.
Hmmmm.
Still not a lot to add to the above.
Except...
No. Not even that, I guess.
Last night I was pondering why I don't write more and I came up with the very certain (and possibly completely fabricated) realization that it's because I'm afraid I'd end up not sleeping, ignoring my family, & resenting my paying job and any other similarly trivial distractions. And those feelings would be in direct conflict with my equally strong obligation to order, structure, and the lifestyle to which my family and I have become accustomed (ie., one with a roof over our heads).
Shoot. You can see my dilemma, right?
I reckon the next step is to find a creative solution. Like, for example, I could stop thinking in such extreme terms, maybe. I mean, what's to say I can't set up 1 hour writing time 2 nights during the week and another 2 hour chunk guaranteed on Sundays? And what's to say I can't start to wean myself off of the artificial should-do's a bit more?
It apparently is a slow process. I've had this conversation in my head, with friends, and on the internet before now. Kinda like Groundhog Day, huh, D?
Hmmmm.
Still not a lot to add to the above.
Except...
No. Not even that, I guess.
Last night I was pondering why I don't write more and I came up with the very certain (and possibly completely fabricated) realization that it's because I'm afraid I'd end up not sleeping, ignoring my family, & resenting my paying job and any other similarly trivial distractions. And those feelings would be in direct conflict with my equally strong obligation to order, structure, and the lifestyle to which my family and I have become accustomed (ie., one with a roof over our heads).
Shoot. You can see my dilemma, right?
I reckon the next step is to find a creative solution. Like, for example, I could stop thinking in such extreme terms, maybe. I mean, what's to say I can't set up 1 hour writing time 2 nights during the week and another 2 hour chunk guaranteed on Sundays? And what's to say I can't start to wean myself off of the artificial should-do's a bit more?
It apparently is a slow process. I've had this conversation in my head, with friends, and on the internet before now. Kinda like Groundhog Day, huh, D?
Tuesday, May 10, 2005
The things we do for fish
D has been working hard on the 450 gallon fish tank that will be replacing our two koi's modest (read: too small to turn around in) 60 gallon tank. If you saw our fish, you'd understand why this is necessary. These fish outweigh some housecats. It may take both of the adults in the house to lift the larger of the two out of the present tank and into the temporary tank that will house them while we move the present tank aside to make room for the new! improved! aquarium.
D's been building the new tank in the garage. He said it's a little like building a plane in your garage. I said, "Yeah, but planes have wheels." How will he move the tank from the garage to around the house and in the back door so it can be set up in the livingroom? He'll build a special dolly for it. Of course.
My mother fails to understand why we have to "lose" about an eight of our livingroom to this new tank, even though I explained that these fish are a like family, and we can't just give them away, let them die, or fry them up for dinner (even though they'd serve 12).
Between the saltwater tidepool/reef tank that runs the length of one of the walls of the garage, and now the Big Tank, I say we call this "Monterey Bay Aquarium North" and start to sell admission to classes of small school children. It will off-set the expenses associated with building the "exhibits," anyway.
I'll be sure to announce the Opening Day date and Members-only Early Entry hours as soon as those details become available.
D's been building the new tank in the garage. He said it's a little like building a plane in your garage. I said, "Yeah, but planes have wheels." How will he move the tank from the garage to around the house and in the back door so it can be set up in the livingroom? He'll build a special dolly for it. Of course.
My mother fails to understand why we have to "lose" about an eight of our livingroom to this new tank, even though I explained that these fish are a like family, and we can't just give them away, let them die, or fry them up for dinner (even though they'd serve 12).
Between the saltwater tidepool/reef tank that runs the length of one of the walls of the garage, and now the Big Tank, I say we call this "Monterey Bay Aquarium North" and start to sell admission to classes of small school children. It will off-set the expenses associated with building the "exhibits," anyway.
I'll be sure to announce the Opening Day date and Members-only Early Entry hours as soon as those details become available.
Monday, May 09, 2005
Monday night, turning in early
Well, I don't know what you have left for the day, but I'm about done. I've given the kids 10 minutes more to color, etc. and 10 minutes for me to "scribble" as Jo March might say, and catch up on the internet (as Jo never did), and then we're hitting the hay.
Reading L'Engle's musings on "fundamental" Christianity and "literalism" has been encouraging. She always points back to the importance of Love. I wish I could keep it in mind more often, myself.
I was approached by a past school board member on Saturday with a question about whether I would consider "having a conversation" about me being on the Board. Clearly, she doesn't realize that while I seem responsible and discerning and involved, in fact, I dread responsibility and I am trying very hard to set boundaries in my life and keep it simple. Maybe it's time to practice the mantra that goes:
No. No. No.
Except that's not a very positive mantra, is it? Maybe it should be a question of saying "no" to them, but of saying "yes" to me, to my family, to space & peace. Yes. Yes. Yes.
Speaking of which, I have done a drastic thing and signed up for a 3-day poets' workshop at a retreat center near Monterey. It takes place next month. It's my way of re-affirming that I'm serious about writing. I've heard the workshop leader give a lecture and I think I can learn a lot from her. This afternoon, I was talking to another writer I know who is familiar with some people who go to that particular conference/retreat facility, and she said, "Yeah. That could be really a great experience."
"Or," she added brightly, "it could turn out to be just a bunch of really damaged people putting it all out there for 3 days."
Great.
I also now notice that swimsuits are entirely optional at the hot springs, and are, in fact, used less often than the alternative. This has left D wondering why, exactly, he agreed to giving me the weekend off (while he single-parents).
But honey, it could be such an...um...educational experience. My goal? To write poetry and more poetry, to pick up some more writing tips, and to do it all without myself somehow becoming a really damaged person. Hey. Goals are important to have.
Reading L'Engle's musings on "fundamental" Christianity and "literalism" has been encouraging. She always points back to the importance of Love. I wish I could keep it in mind more often, myself.
I was approached by a past school board member on Saturday with a question about whether I would consider "having a conversation" about me being on the Board. Clearly, she doesn't realize that while I seem responsible and discerning and involved, in fact, I dread responsibility and I am trying very hard to set boundaries in my life and keep it simple. Maybe it's time to practice the mantra that goes:
No. No. No.
Except that's not a very positive mantra, is it? Maybe it should be a question of saying "no" to them, but of saying "yes" to me, to my family, to space & peace. Yes. Yes. Yes.
Speaking of which, I have done a drastic thing and signed up for a 3-day poets' workshop at a retreat center near Monterey. It takes place next month. It's my way of re-affirming that I'm serious about writing. I've heard the workshop leader give a lecture and I think I can learn a lot from her. This afternoon, I was talking to another writer I know who is familiar with some people who go to that particular conference/retreat facility, and she said, "Yeah. That could be really a great experience."
"Or," she added brightly, "it could turn out to be just a bunch of really damaged people putting it all out there for 3 days."
Great.
I also now notice that swimsuits are entirely optional at the hot springs, and are, in fact, used less often than the alternative. This has left D wondering why, exactly, he agreed to giving me the weekend off (while he single-parents).
But honey, it could be such an...um...educational experience. My goal? To write poetry and more poetry, to pick up some more writing tips, and to do it all without myself somehow becoming a really damaged person. Hey. Goals are important to have.
Sunday, May 08, 2005
Mother's Day
I was deeply happy for a good long stretch of time today. It made me realize that I only skip over the surface of happiness like a well-thrown stone most of the time. Real contentment, the sense that all is, in fact, right with the world, is a little too rare these days.
When did that change? I don't know. But I do know that it helped greatly to be home for most of the day - after taking R to riding lessons at 8:15. And it helped even more that D did the grocery shopping, made lunch, and did the dishes. His mother and stepdad were here, and we had a good time, considering. There were only a couple of tense moments - once when Larry started to talk about how the streets in Iraq were literally running with blood & I cut him off because the kids were within earshot; and again, after lunch, when the kids weren't around and he told the story of how he'd threatened a registered sex offender who works as a janitor in the same large hospital building where he (Larry) is working as a painter. The conversation got a little too graphic and I interrupted with a story about my dad (always a good conversation stopper) and he dropped what he'd been saying.
In spite of that, though, I felt like I had a good stretch of space to catch up on emails, organize papers, do laundry and tidy, while the kids entertained themselves. That kind of time is just the ticket to allow me to feel caught up so I can in turn settle down and breathe deeply, so I can rest my feet in peaceful waters.
Just finished reading Eve Green by a novelist 10 years younger than me. The nerve. I'd picked it up at random (I kid you not), so of course, it "randomly" takes place in Wales. It never stops in my life, apparently; that connection to Wales is always there in one form or another.
Now I'm reading Penguins & Golden Calves by Madeleine L'Engle. Essays on icons and idols, writing about America and Antarctica, and about her life with her husband and her life after his death. It's a good read. It's good for me to stay connected with this author, who is so much a Christian and yet still so able to allow God to live somewhere bigger than the box some Christians put him in.
When did that change? I don't know. But I do know that it helped greatly to be home for most of the day - after taking R to riding lessons at 8:15. And it helped even more that D did the grocery shopping, made lunch, and did the dishes. His mother and stepdad were here, and we had a good time, considering. There were only a couple of tense moments - once when Larry started to talk about how the streets in Iraq were literally running with blood & I cut him off because the kids were within earshot; and again, after lunch, when the kids weren't around and he told the story of how he'd threatened a registered sex offender who works as a janitor in the same large hospital building where he (Larry) is working as a painter. The conversation got a little too graphic and I interrupted with a story about my dad (always a good conversation stopper) and he dropped what he'd been saying.
In spite of that, though, I felt like I had a good stretch of space to catch up on emails, organize papers, do laundry and tidy, while the kids entertained themselves. That kind of time is just the ticket to allow me to feel caught up so I can in turn settle down and breathe deeply, so I can rest my feet in peaceful waters.
Just finished reading Eve Green by a novelist 10 years younger than me. The nerve. I'd picked it up at random (I kid you not), so of course, it "randomly" takes place in Wales. It never stops in my life, apparently; that connection to Wales is always there in one form or another.
Now I'm reading Penguins & Golden Calves by Madeleine L'Engle. Essays on icons and idols, writing about America and Antarctica, and about her life with her husband and her life after his death. It's a good read. It's good for me to stay connected with this author, who is so much a Christian and yet still so able to allow God to live somewhere bigger than the box some Christians put him in.
Saturday, May 07, 2005
Post race night already
It's been a full day. The race went well - I didn't walk at all, and did a pretty good time (for me), considering I hadn't been trainng for the event as much as usual.
I spent the better part of the day after that shuttling kids around and participating in the girls' school's May Faire, complete with maypole dancing from each class, strawberry shortcake, flower planting, garland making, prayer flag painting, and kids running around and being kids.
I've fallen asleep twice now, writing this. No point trying to come up with anything much that's readable, now....make that three times. -out-
I spent the better part of the day after that shuttling kids around and participating in the girls' school's May Faire, complete with maypole dancing from each class, strawberry shortcake, flower planting, garland making, prayer flag painting, and kids running around and being kids.
I've fallen asleep twice now, writing this. No point trying to come up with anything much that's readable, now....make that three times. -out-
Friday, May 06, 2005
Pre Race Night, not ready
Tomorrow is The Human Race, a 5k walk/10k run with about 8,000 participants that annually raises over 1 million dollars for non-profit organizations in the county. A 10k is 6.2 miles - and haven't run any further than 4.6 miles at a stretch since February. I should probably be worried, but what's the point? It wouldn't change anything. I have to hope the half marathon training leading up to February is still somehow in my system.
Besides, thanks to amazing generosity from co-workers, I've raised quite a bit of money for our city's Hospice, and the pledges will motivate me after the four mile mark, when I'm starting to wonder whose bright idea it was to do the 10k instead of the 5k, anyway.
It's just past 9pm now, and I'm going to bed - about an hour and a half earlier than I have all week. That should help with the run too, I think.
Besides, thanks to amazing generosity from co-workers, I've raised quite a bit of money for our city's Hospice, and the pledges will motivate me after the four mile mark, when I'm starting to wonder whose bright idea it was to do the 10k instead of the 5k, anyway.
It's just past 9pm now, and I'm going to bed - about an hour and a half earlier than I have all week. That should help with the run too, I think.
Thursday, May 05, 2005
Pre-weekend mode
Let's just call this the beginning of the weekend. There's that one day of work to get through, but hey! that's just one day.
We do Superslow weight training twice a week at work. It's one of the biggest perks there is at the company, one of the reasons *not* to quit. The concept is that you use specially-calibrated machines to move the weights really slowly. It's not the number of reps that counts so much as spending 2 minutes on each machine doing exaggeratedly slow reps, 10 seconds in each direction. That way, within 20 minutes, you've had quite a workout. Sometimes my arms and legs are shaking pretty significantly by the time I wobble back to my desk after a session. My coworker once made fun of me, when just back from the gym, because my triceps and biceps were quivering when I reached out to dial the phone.
I usually don't want to do these workouts. It helps that our 2 trainers are awesome women and fun to spend time with and are, besides that, really good coaches. But still, it's a workout, not a half-hour of lying on a couch. And the weights are, well, heavy.
But the results of the training are great, and as another coworker pointed out once about each machine: "Hey. It's only 2 minutes. I can do just about anything if it's only for 2 minutes."
I may have already told this story. But my real point, now, is this: tomorrow is only 1 workday before the weekend. I can survive 1 workday.
And to Josh: we'll have to decline your generous offer of less-than-domesticated rats. But gee, thanks for asking.
(Is this what you mean by snarkiness, Julia?)
We do Superslow weight training twice a week at work. It's one of the biggest perks there is at the company, one of the reasons *not* to quit. The concept is that you use specially-calibrated machines to move the weights really slowly. It's not the number of reps that counts so much as spending 2 minutes on each machine doing exaggeratedly slow reps, 10 seconds in each direction. That way, within 20 minutes, you've had quite a workout. Sometimes my arms and legs are shaking pretty significantly by the time I wobble back to my desk after a session. My coworker once made fun of me, when just back from the gym, because my triceps and biceps were quivering when I reached out to dial the phone.
I usually don't want to do these workouts. It helps that our 2 trainers are awesome women and fun to spend time with and are, besides that, really good coaches. But still, it's a workout, not a half-hour of lying on a couch. And the weights are, well, heavy.
But the results of the training are great, and as another coworker pointed out once about each machine: "Hey. It's only 2 minutes. I can do just about anything if it's only for 2 minutes."
I may have already told this story. But my real point, now, is this: tomorrow is only 1 workday before the weekend. I can survive 1 workday.
And to Josh: we'll have to decline your generous offer of less-than-domesticated rats. But gee, thanks for asking.
(Is this what you mean by snarkiness, Julia?)
Wednesday, May 04, 2005
Miscellany
I'm still trying to sell the Escape. You can see it on craigslist.org here until the link expires.
We're also trying to find a home for something like 40 years (no, seriously) of National Geographics. D's father gave the boxes to us, and would like them to go to a school or non-profit organization as a lot. Once I know the exact years, I'll put that on craigslist too, I guess. Unlike many people I know, I have no experience at all with eBay, so I'm sticking to the local listings.
Dang.
I just started another sentence (and it was going to be a good one, honest) but Beatrice the rat walked on the keyboard and it went away. She's a worse critic of my work than I am. But she has turned out to be a great pet (when she isn't playing editor). She probably gets held or runs around the house 45-90 minutes a day by any of the four of us. When she is loose - which is to say, when the dog is not inside - she comes when you call her, even if she's in a distant room. Hmm. That's more than I can say about my daughters, as a matter of fact.
But I digress.
Beatrice and the dog (who is, I must say, a marvelous creature himself) have been introduced. She would climb right up his nose and sit on his head if we let her - she's that fearless and friendly. But Albion, wonderful though he is, would not be blamed for thinking that she is...well, if not an afternoon snack, than at least a fun new toy. And it's just too hard to un-bite the head off of a small animal.
Um. Sorry. Got gross there for a second.
I'm posting a picture from the race we ran last month, too. My first blog photo. Finally! Not the perfect picture of any one of the three of us, but it'll do.
We're also trying to find a home for something like 40 years (no, seriously) of National Geographics. D's father gave the boxes to us, and would like them to go to a school or non-profit organization as a lot. Once I know the exact years, I'll put that on craigslist too, I guess. Unlike many people I know, I have no experience at all with eBay, so I'm sticking to the local listings.
Dang.
I just started another sentence (and it was going to be a good one, honest) but Beatrice the rat walked on the keyboard and it went away. She's a worse critic of my work than I am. But she has turned out to be a great pet (when she isn't playing editor). She probably gets held or runs around the house 45-90 minutes a day by any of the four of us. When she is loose - which is to say, when the dog is not inside - she comes when you call her, even if she's in a distant room. Hmm. That's more than I can say about my daughters, as a matter of fact.
But I digress.
Beatrice and the dog (who is, I must say, a marvelous creature himself) have been introduced. She would climb right up his nose and sit on his head if we let her - she's that fearless and friendly. But Albion, wonderful though he is, would not be blamed for thinking that she is...well, if not an afternoon snack, than at least a fun new toy. And it's just too hard to un-bite the head off of a small animal.
Um. Sorry. Got gross there for a second.
I'm posting a picture from the race we ran last month, too. My first blog photo. Finally! Not the perfect picture of any one of the three of us, but it'll do.
Tuesday, May 03, 2005
The absolutely first thing you must do...
...is read Eloise Takes a Bawth sometime. It's zany, but it's also poetry.
Do you know about the author of the Eloise books, Kay Thompson? What a character. I had no idea. She was wild, eccentric, strong, determined and proud. She was probably very hard to live with, but at the same time she was inspirational. She never stopped, and she never looked back.
I truly admire people like that - artists on fire for life - but sometimes, I have to admire them from afar. Close enough to be warmed and lit up, but not so close that I burn to a crisp. My focus now is on creating my own light, having my own fire.
(And in the meantime, having fun fun fun by doing things like reading Eloise books to my kids.)
Do you know about the author of the Eloise books, Kay Thompson? What a character. I had no idea. She was wild, eccentric, strong, determined and proud. She was probably very hard to live with, but at the same time she was inspirational. She never stopped, and she never looked back.
I truly admire people like that - artists on fire for life - but sometimes, I have to admire them from afar. Close enough to be warmed and lit up, but not so close that I burn to a crisp. My focus now is on creating my own light, having my own fire.
(And in the meantime, having fun fun fun by doing things like reading Eloise books to my kids.)
Monday, May 02, 2005
Somewhere in the middle of 8 hrs sleep
I fell asleep at 9 when I put the girls to bed, and now I'm doing this habitual "getting up only to post at around 11pm" thing.
What to say about today? Work was busy, as usual, so the day flew by there. After school and before the girls and I had dinner and a trip to the pet store, I was watching 6 kids: my 2, the next-door neighbor, the girl from across the street (who now knocks on our door 3 times an afternoon if we're not out front begging us to come out), and the siblings who had come over to play with my 2 kids to begin with.
It's crazy & impossible not to be completely In The Moment when in charge of that many children. One must abandon the thought of doing anything other than paying attention to the Present.
It is , however, tricky paying attention to the Present in multiple locations.
Julia was asking me to let her play inside with the rat at the same instant that Richie fell off the bike he was borrowing, and while I was distracted by that, S and Kira disappeared from Kira's driveway, where I'd had an eye on them. I saw from afar that Richie was fine (he got up and wasn't crying or limping), I put off Julia's request, and took her with me to find the other 2 five-year-olds. It wasn't too hard to guess where they'd gone because they'd just finished asking if they could go play at Kira's house, and I'd just finished saying, "No," because her mother was gone and there was no one there to watch them.
Sure enough, the front door to Kira's house was unlocked. I didn't feel comfortable going in while the other kids were in the street on bikes - I needed to watch them, too - so I called into the house from the front door for the girls to come out. It took a few tries, and then they finally emerged from a back bedroom. Before they were even close to me, Kira announced, "We're just eating crackers."
Right. That's always convincing.
"Really?" I asked. "You're not maybe eating candy?" (Kira's mother had told me a couple of days ago that they'd just found and raided a hidden stash.)
Oh, no, they weren't eating candy. They were busily chewing on crackers. Apparently the kind of Saltines that coincidently crunch just like hard candy crunches when you bite down on it in a quick the-parent-is-watching-me panic.
I was amazed at how fast they'd thought up a lie and how long they insisted on sticking to it. I asked a couple more times if it wasn't maybe, perhaps, for example, some candy they were eating. I even said boy, I bet it sure would be tempting to find and eat candy in a house when your mom and dad weren't there. I asked to see what they had in their mouths and their eyes got wide and a little wild and they clamped their jaws shut and furiously shook their heads, crunching and swallowing manically.
Meanwhile, Richie had fallen again, or maybe was finally really reacting to having fallen the first time, and he was lying in another neighbor's driveway, shaking his hand and groaning theatrically. And Julia was asking politely but plaintively if her dad was coming soon to pick her up.
Oh yeah, I was living in the moment then. It was so very Zen and peaceful.
I finally had to pull out the, "Gee, I guess we can't let you two play together if you tell stories to adults like this when you do," and that was enough to elicit the confessions. Not that they shouted out, "It's candy! It's candy!" They just nodded and when I finally put the question to them one more time.
I said, "Thank you for telling the truth," without adding, "finally."
I herded the children (except the girl-from-across-the-street) inside.
I got out the rat for Julia.
I got out more paper and pens for the Candy Thieves of Clairmont Court.
I cleaned up Richie's only-slightly torn palm.
I spent some time focusing on the "here and now" instead of the "here-and-there and now."
Actually, it was a good afternoon.
What to say about today? Work was busy, as usual, so the day flew by there. After school and before the girls and I had dinner and a trip to the pet store, I was watching 6 kids: my 2, the next-door neighbor, the girl from across the street (who now knocks on our door 3 times an afternoon if we're not out front begging us to come out), and the siblings who had come over to play with my 2 kids to begin with.
It's crazy & impossible not to be completely In The Moment when in charge of that many children. One must abandon the thought of doing anything other than paying attention to the Present.
It is , however, tricky paying attention to the Present in multiple locations.
Julia was asking me to let her play inside with the rat at the same instant that Richie fell off the bike he was borrowing, and while I was distracted by that, S and Kira disappeared from Kira's driveway, where I'd had an eye on them. I saw from afar that Richie was fine (he got up and wasn't crying or limping), I put off Julia's request, and took her with me to find the other 2 five-year-olds. It wasn't too hard to guess where they'd gone because they'd just finished asking if they could go play at Kira's house, and I'd just finished saying, "No," because her mother was gone and there was no one there to watch them.
Sure enough, the front door to Kira's house was unlocked. I didn't feel comfortable going in while the other kids were in the street on bikes - I needed to watch them, too - so I called into the house from the front door for the girls to come out. It took a few tries, and then they finally emerged from a back bedroom. Before they were even close to me, Kira announced, "We're just eating crackers."
Right. That's always convincing.
"Really?" I asked. "You're not maybe eating candy?" (Kira's mother had told me a couple of days ago that they'd just found and raided a hidden stash.)
Oh, no, they weren't eating candy. They were busily chewing on crackers. Apparently the kind of Saltines that coincidently crunch just like hard candy crunches when you bite down on it in a quick the-parent-is-watching-me panic.
I was amazed at how fast they'd thought up a lie and how long they insisted on sticking to it. I asked a couple more times if it wasn't maybe, perhaps, for example, some candy they were eating. I even said boy, I bet it sure would be tempting to find and eat candy in a house when your mom and dad weren't there. I asked to see what they had in their mouths and their eyes got wide and a little wild and they clamped their jaws shut and furiously shook their heads, crunching and swallowing manically.
Meanwhile, Richie had fallen again, or maybe was finally really reacting to having fallen the first time, and he was lying in another neighbor's driveway, shaking his hand and groaning theatrically. And Julia was asking politely but plaintively if her dad was coming soon to pick her up.
Oh yeah, I was living in the moment then. It was so very Zen and peaceful.
I finally had to pull out the, "Gee, I guess we can't let you two play together if you tell stories to adults like this when you do," and that was enough to elicit the confessions. Not that they shouted out, "It's candy! It's candy!" They just nodded and when I finally put the question to them one more time.
I said, "Thank you for telling the truth," without adding, "finally."
I herded the children (except the girl-from-across-the-street) inside.
I got out the rat for Julia.
I got out more paper and pens for the Candy Thieves of Clairmont Court.
I cleaned up Richie's only-slightly torn palm.
I spent some time focusing on the "here and now" instead of the "here-and-there and now."
Actually, it was a good afternoon.
Sunday, May 01, 2005
Many a new
Happy May Day!
Thanks for the comments, ladies. It's interesting. I completely believe that Clare could be a writer like her mom was and is, but I realize that I can't (maybe I should say, "can't yet") believe in it for myself. Is that an honest assessment of my lack of ability, or just my lack of belief in myself that's speaking? And if it's the latter, well, dammit, I need to take steps to change that.
Last month, I wrote a couple of new poems & posted one here. Here's what I'll do this month to strengthen/create my vision of myself as a writer. I'll write at least two new poems and will send something out to a magazine or journal. Today, the part of Julia-daring-me will be played by me. Since she's busy with a new baby and all that.
And I think Lisa 's comment to yesterday's post is valid. If such a thing can be done and if I can be thick-skinned/confident enough to stand the unavoidable potentially ugly fallout associated with it, I should try to change where I sit at work from one room to another. As one of Lisa's teachers once told her about Evolution: "Change, Adapt, or Die."
Hmmm. So what have I learned from my forty-five minutes on the internet tonight? That my self-esteem and self-confidence are still too low. That I shouldn't beat myself up over having low self-esteem. (Because for some reason, that just seems counter-productive.) That some people claim to have seen UFO's around the WTC during the attack. (You'll notice no hot link to those web pages. I'm sure you can find them if you're so inclined.) That Suzanne saw an amazing sight today. And (again) that I can sit down hoping I'll come up with something to say and - lo and behold! - the words come. Even if it's self-reflective stuff.
And since I have to get up for work in 5 hours (stop laughing, D), I'm done for now. And yeah, that sleeping 8 hrs a night thing didn't last (as some of you knew it wouldn't). But I remember it fondly, and it's something to try again soon.
Thanks for the comments, ladies. It's interesting. I completely believe that Clare could be a writer like her mom was and is, but I realize that I can't (maybe I should say, "can't yet") believe in it for myself. Is that an honest assessment of my lack of ability, or just my lack of belief in myself that's speaking? And if it's the latter, well, dammit, I need to take steps to change that.
Last month, I wrote a couple of new poems & posted one here. Here's what I'll do this month to strengthen/create my vision of myself as a writer. I'll write at least two new poems and will send something out to a magazine or journal. Today, the part of Julia-daring-me will be played by me. Since she's busy with a new baby and all that.
And I think Lisa 's comment to yesterday's post is valid. If such a thing can be done and if I can be thick-skinned/confident enough to stand the unavoidable potentially ugly fallout associated with it, I should try to change where I sit at work from one room to another. As one of Lisa's teachers once told her about Evolution: "Change, Adapt, or Die."
Hmmm. So what have I learned from my forty-five minutes on the internet tonight? That my self-esteem and self-confidence are still too low. That I shouldn't beat myself up over having low self-esteem. (Because for some reason, that just seems counter-productive.) That some people claim to have seen UFO's around the WTC during the attack. (You'll notice no hot link to those web pages. I'm sure you can find them if you're so inclined.) That Suzanne saw an amazing sight today. And (again) that I can sit down hoping I'll come up with something to say and - lo and behold! - the words come. Even if it's self-reflective stuff.
And since I have to get up for work in 5 hours (stop laughing, D), I'm done for now. And yeah, that sleeping 8 hrs a night thing didn't last (as some of you knew it wouldn't). But I remember it fondly, and it's something to try again soon.
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